A true man can grab a women's hand or place his palm on the small of her back and send both the shock of electricity and comforting sense of security to run through her entire body. He can kiss her causing her to feel faint but even a kiss is almost unnecessary because just being near him gives her the sense that nothing and no one can harm her....women need men to feel stronger it's not that they are not strong enough on their own in fact they can be stronger in almost every way, it's the simple fact that a female is to be protected just as fathers protect their daughter's. The entire world is set out to taint the female innocence, telling women that they will never be good enough for the men around them, until the moment when a man looks a women in the eyes like she is the only one he see's and all that sociological nonsense melts away in that one instant.
A true man is made up of courage, respect, and honor.....a woman recognizes these qualities and as a direct result without even realizing it will follow him to the ends of the earth...it's about the elimination of doubt even just for a moment to be with someone who is able to take on the responsibility of carrying your burdens with you.
Thus Cowards will never know the power of true men, although history books do provide them a glimpse.
Watching: Mad Men
What you have written and shared touched me, thank you. A real man is starting to become a thing of the past. There is nothing left to forge a "man"; all we have is a society of boys in men's clothing. There is no loss to teach them value. There is no fear to teach them courage. There is no consequence to teach the truth.
ReplyDeleteIt is a sad reflection for those out there that are aware and angered by these "men". Those that have earned nothing and give even less making a bad name for people that have morals and ethics on manhood and how to treat others, on how to treat a woman.
In some ways I blame the blind fools that strive for gender neutering as they feel that any role should be, could be done by one of another sex. Equal, but not nor ever the same. There is no more a replacement for a man in anyway nor is there for a woman. We are pairs; non-greater than the other and both just as important.
It is a sad circle here. Women have been treated poorly, so they learn to be independent and get on without assistance of a real man. This has made them weary and distrustful so that should the encounter a real man they are unsure, insecure and while filled with hope, they maintain the walls the foolish “boys” have help them build. It is hard to endure the soft touch of a woman, the complexity that she brings to your heart when it couples with lack of trust and walls that are meant to keep her safe. How do you embrace her if you cannot touch her? How do you sweeper her off her feet if first she must let you? How do you enter her stone covered heart when you are a man and have your flaws?
Poor substitutes for men make closed and bitter women for every man. A closed bitter woman can sometimes soften the hardest of men. There are few of us that are made of stone and metal left. When we make ourselves vulnerable to you, we can be cracked and tarnished. The softest touch breaks the hardest things.